How to Kiss the Neck

keep your kisses really exciting by being spontaneous and by varying their intensity and duration. Also, be sure not to engage in a marathon kissing session. Initially, you want to pique her desire, not quench it altogether. This technique greatly sparks a woman’s desire and anticipation for you.

Now that you have the game plan down, try some of these techniques for passionately kissing a woman.

Have a Crush on a Friend? How to Move Out of the Friend Zone

Have you realized that you have a crush on a friend of yours, and need to know what to do? Can you move out of the friend zone and become a couple? Are you anxious about trying to make a move from friendship to a romantic relationship? It can be very scary when you realize you have a crush on a friend, but here are a few tips to help you proceed.

Step 1 - Think it through.

If you want to move out of the friend zone with someone that you have been close to, you need to treat this as a very serious step. There is plenty of advice out there that will tell you that the best way to start a relationship is to become friends first. However, if you have found yourself in the position of wanting more from a friend, you know that there is plenty of difficulty in this area. You need to make sure that this is not just a passing infatuation before you risk your friendship.

Step 2 - Look for signs.

If you have been on a basis of strict friendship with someone for any decent length of time, then your love interest might not think of you in any other way. There is a real risk of rejection here. Try to determine whether there have been any signs of romantic interest, without just seeing what you want to see. Do your best to gauge your real chances of making a romance happen.

Step 3 - Come clean.

If a bit of flirting isn't enough to change the dynamic between you, you are going to have to gather your courage and tell your friend how you really feel. If you have a crush on a friend, you will probably simply confuse that person if you start behaving differently. You owe it to your friend to talk openly, so try to find a time and simply come clean about wanting more.

Step 4 - Give it some time.

Once you tell your friend how you feel, you might need to then stay away from that person for a while. Unless this person has felt the same way, they will need time to adjust to this new idea. So be willing to give your friend some space before giving you an answer. When you have a crush on a friend, you should take things slowly and hope for the best.

A Lasting Relationship - How to Build One For Yourself

Are you ready to build a lasting relationship with a new guy that you have been seeing? Do you want to know how to do things right this time? What is the best way to make sure that things are solid before you jump in? Here are a few surprising keys to the beginning of a lasting relationship.

--Don't throw yourself into it too quickly.

One way to make sure a relationship is going to work for the long term is to take your time getting into it in the first place. You might be ready, willing, and even anxious to put the seal on your commitment and start your life as a couple. This is not always the best idea, however. You should keep the pressure off if you want to build trust.

--Think long and hard about things first.

While you are taking your time, put in a lot of thought as well. No matter how enthusiastic and infatuated you feel now, things will eventually cool off. You should try to understand what you have between you that will really contribute to a lasting relationship once the first rush is gone. This might seem like a mood-killer, but you will know what you really want and why it is right.

--Want it, don't need it.

This is another aspect to getting into a relationship for the right reasons. You should commit to a man who is really right for you, instead of settling in order to be with someone. Even if you are lonely being single, don't just jump into something in order not to be alone.

It might seem hard to wait, but it will be worth it if you hold out for something fulfilling. If you really want a lasting relationship, it needs to be with the right guy and for the best possible reasons.

Friends Dating

Some people don't always agree with friends dating because they believe that crossing borders spoils or ends friendships. There are those that support friends dating because they realise how important it is to be with someone that you really know. This increases the chances of a long lasting and happy relationship. There can be awkwardness if only one person is attracted to the other, but if both parties recognise the attraction, then being awkward around each other is not something to worry about. In fact since Friends are already comfortable being together, they can enjoy being intimate with each other much sooner, that's why friends dating works.

How do you get past the fact that you are Friends? - You don't have to because the beauty of friends dating is that you already know each other because you are friends. This means you know what will make each other happy. If you are still concerned about the fact that you are Friends, then it's obvious you are clearly not ready to go beyond friendship. Nobody can really plan who they end up with but a simple way of avoiding or lessening the stress of this dilemma in the future is by not putting someone you are attracted to in the friends only category. Also when there is attraction and yet no intention of getting involved in a romantic relationship but yet you pursue the Friendship, the advice is just don't close your doors. It's great to have a hot friend because you can do loads of things together and even better you can do things to each other, but still until the time is right make sure you understand your boundaries. If you are Friends, you are Friends. There is nothing quite like taking the opportunity of that closeness to increase your chances of actually getting a real chance at being romantically involved to the person you like.

It's quite common for Friends Dating to occur and then turn into love dating. After all you are with someone with whom you share a clear a connection with and there is no harm in trying to determine the degree of this connection. However, it's not always that easy to find someone that you can go out with and date.

A lot of people prefer the Friends first approach because this takes away a lot of the effort that goes into the "getting to know each other" part of a relationship. If you don't have any Friends right now that give you that kind of desire?

ladies who are waiting for the right man and not just any man

This article is dedicated to the ladies who are waiting for the right man and not just any man.

"Women are like apples on trees. The best ones are at the top of the tree. The men don't want to reach for the good ones because they are afraid of falling and getting hurt. Instead, they just get the rotten apples from the ground that aren't as good, but easy. So the apples at the top think something is wrong with them, when in reality, THEY'RE amazing. They just have to wait for the right man to come along. The one who's brave enough to climb all the way to the top of the tree" - Author unknown.

I received this short poem in an email and I absolutely love this poem. It really helped me through a period of time when I was single for what seemed like an eternity. I know how it feels to go through a long period of singleness sometimes with no end in sight. It seems even worse when others are constantly reminding you of your singleness, as if you didn't remember. Don't you hate it when you catch up with an old friend and the first thing they ask is if you are married or found someone special yet? I have met women who seem to only judge your success on the basis of your marital /relationship status. You could have graduated magna cum laude from Harvard, opened a Fortune 500 company and that wouldn't even interest them. They're not interested because they only want to hear about your romantic life. Maybe it's not your friends pressuring you. It might be a nagging mother or other family members. Their behavior and attitude may begin to affect you to the point where you are ready to end your singleness at all cost. You are so desperate that you are ready to lower your standards and date the first person that comes along just so that you can have the title "In a Relationship". You are ready to put your morals and requirements away and "fall to the ground" so that you can have someone. If you have decided to date a man that is already in a relationship, engaged or married, then you have fallen. If you have decided to date a man that has no job, no car and no money on the horizon. If you have decided to date a man that doesn't meet your "must have" standards then you have fallen.

You should have standards and values. A man should know that you expect certain things from him and vice versa. It's like the old saying "if you stand for nothing you will fall for anything." If you are valuable that means that you will have values because you value yourself. Don't start lowering your standards or crossing your important qualifications off the list just for the sake of having a man. When I speak about important qualifications I am not talking about things like a man's age, height or the car he drives. You shouldn't exclude a man just because he is not 6 foot tall or because he isn't an Ivy League graduate, you should be flexible on things like that. Important qualifications are his ethics, core values and intellect. For example if you are strongly opposed to drug use you shouldn't start a relationship with a pot- head.

If you really want kids, you probably shouldn't start a relationship with a man who admittedly does not want children. Don't believe the lie that you can change him. So many women are unhappy because they are trying to change someone else. It's hard enough for me to change myself. Most people have a hard time with change. Think about this: how many times have you tried to change your spending habits, diet, etc. Just think of the many New Year's resolutions that you haven't been able to keep. Let's face it; change can be hard; the bottom line is, don't expect him to change for you. I am not saying it is impossible for him to change. I am saying that change is highly unlikely, especially when it comes to the big things. If he doesn't work, has never worked and hates to work, don't expect that he is going to get up and suddenly become gainfully employed just because you are now in his life.

You may be tired of seeing all the fallen apples getting picked before you. I can understand, I have been there where you see friends compromise what they believe in just so they won't have to spend Valentine's or a Saturday night without a date. Women who compromise themselves are probably going to be left disappointed in the end. They probably won't share their disappointment with you. They want it to appear that they are happy. But the reality is they are probably not. You are going to be better off in the long run if you take your time in selecting a partner. It is okay to embrace being alone it allows you clarity that you won't get from being in a relationship. If you hop from relationship to relationship you won't be able to learn what you really need to be happy. It takes time and reflection to seriously learn what you need in a relationship. Commit to staying on the tree and only allowing the right man to pick you.

What Women Want

Two nights ago in a snooker club, while on a blackball-chase with Jumoke, my snooker-freak friend, she told me she is a tripper for pointed-nosed and bright-eyes guys and wouldn't mind if they haven't got any other thing to flaunt. "Larry, you see, I don't mind if they are physically built or not, especially if he is free-minded", she said taking a cushion shot. It was all about the guy that played before we did; he was her perfect man. As we drove back home that night, after she whopped me on 4-balls, I wondered what women really wanted. Especially when I had met women who are ready to go to the ends of the world with you even if you as broke as the proverbial church rat. Then it is quite common to find others who wouldn't return a smile if it is not coming from your jaw-dropping-cost blings or if your car wouldn't stir a "look at that!" Then you have my fiance who would go crazy if I don't get her a stalk of rose on my way home any day, even if I tried to bribe her with a bottle of her best Champagne; and my Sister-in-law has an obsession for a listening ear. It all makes me wonder what women really wanted. Is there a single-all-inclusive want for every woman? You would ask, if you were me. Yes? No? Well not now, just read on. Let me first say that the heart of a woman is deep, unstable, hence, very unpredictable; however, every woman you see around can't deny she needs certain things.

Attention
The foremost need of most women is "attention" and if you meet this need, she will be spell-bound to you. A natural woman could do anything to get the attention of her man, when she really needs it. It is an important need because, to her, it is a measure of her worth in his eyes; she wants his world to revolve around her. It is one need she can never get satisfied of; in fact, the urge increases with time- so long as she is in love with you. This doesn't really means she would want you around her all the time, but when you are not there, she needs to be assured she is hung around your neck where ever you go. She wants to know you are always there; and that you can expend your time on her.

Jealous-devotion
Most women need their man to treat them like his a goddess; they want him to revere them and show them top-notch devotion and they will mind for anything less. I am not saying that women have domineering tendencies; but in as much as they can't have you to themselves, they want you to show them you understand that they own you. You must have observed that a woman might condone it when you cheat on her but will find it difficult to stay with you if you make her feel you have the right to have any other woman beside her. This is because such position hurts their pride but they can live with your unfaithfulness if they know you still recognise the superiority of ownership they have over you.

Respect
I have hardly met any woman who don't crave for her man's respect; especially African and Asian ones. To most women, respect seats at the top of their 'what women wants' list. There is always that recognition of self-worth in every woman; except off course, she had traded hers to satisfy other 'pressing' needs. When a man respects his woman, he gives her a second thought each time his bubbles burst. For most women, respect is an important word in the language of love; so if you don't respect them they, probably, aren't flowing with whatever you are saying.

S.E.X
Then you have the controversial SEX. Yes! S.E.X; most women will give anything to get satisfactory sex from their lover. Though some are shy to accept this, they know it is the truth. Good sex creates a strong sense of fulfilment and self-discovery when it is shared with a special person. When she says 'he makes me feel like a woman'; watch out, she might just be passing a message. I have seen so many marriages crash because somebody was ignorant of this simple truth about his woman; or probably was aware but decided to ignore it. In fact, researches have shown that why most women trip for the machos is because of the unspoken promise of good sex; for such women the bigger the better. Anyway I must say that this particular need is strictly 'bi-sexual'.

Comfort
Another quite insatiable need of a woman is comfort. Every woman will go for a man who could make her comfortable all things being equal. This would mean that a woman will love it if her man can make her physically relaxed by providing her basic needs without having to put her through avoidable stress or pain. In Igbo land a woman will submit to you as a wife if she notices that you can provide for her; give her a roof over her head, feed her and her children, cloth her and meet most of her numerous (in fact countless) needs.

Protection
This brings me to another need that is infused into that of comfort; women wants protection and security. No woman wants to be stranded in life; theirs' is an obsession. A woman likes to be sure of whatever she is going into. She also needs a man that can convince her that he knows where he is taking them to and even if things go wrong he will always be in charge. Besides, she wants to be sure that someone has got her back and that her man can protect her from anything; even those things she is sure is naturally above her.

And...
The list continues; you can't have all of them now. But with the above listed needs you are good to go. However, watch out for others on my lovebirdsguide blogger site. But let mention that the basic needs of a woman isn't the only thing to bother about; you also need to find out when they need them. It is important you know these because a great percentage of what determines your success in this phase of life could be tied around your success with the female folks. You can do some researches to verify this. Good luck and fly high always!

Run and He Will Chase You

I have noticed one thing about dogs; when you play with a dog, if you turn the other way and run, the dog will turn and chase you. If you turn around and decided to chase your dog, then he will run from you. The funny thing is that the same behaviors that dogs exhibit I have noticed in human relationships. Do you know any normal people who become border line stalkers in relationships? You may have a friend that calls her significant other between 20 and 30 times a day and the calls are unwanted and unrequited. She shows up at his job just to surprise him with lunch. She buys greetings cards for Ground Hog's Day, Flag's Day and she wants to spend every other minor holiday just so that she can spill all her mushy guts to him. She's wants to spend every waking moment with her guy and she is attached to him closer than a one year old to his/her mom. The poor guy has no breathing space and all of sudden gets the urge to move and leave no forwarding address. The poor girl can't figure out why he isn't answering his phone and why he is never home when she stops by. That poor girl needs to find a computer and log on to New Love because we would be glad to explain to her why he isn't responding to her. The fact is, if you chase a man, he will run away from you.

It is in a man's basic make up to chase you. They are the hunter; they chase the prey. We are the prey and we are to put up a little resistance. If a big lion was chasing you, you wouldn't just let him pounce on you. You would run and that is what I suggest you keep in mind when it comes to the opposite sex. Let me explain what I am talking about by giving you a few examples...... Rhonda is at the club with the girls. She hasn't had a date in a while and beginning to really feel the need for some time with the opposite sex. She is looking good in her mini skirt and is showing some major cleavage. She bounces her leg to the beat. Along walks a guy and asks to buy her a drink. The smile across her face is huge now and she is so excited. After he buys her the drink, they dance the "mating dance". What is the mating dance? The mating dance can be summed up as having sex with your clothes on. You know what I am talking about it. The dance consists of grinding and "dropping it like it is hot". The next thing she knows it is morning, her head hurts from all the drinking and she is in bed with him. They say their goodbyes and exchange a few text messages over the next couple of days, but their romance is short lived. Why didn't their romance last? There was no chase. The guy saw his prey; he moved in on her and she put up no resistance.

Let me tell you how Rhonda should have played it. When the man walked up to her she should of have smiled and been polite. While she was sipping her drink she should have talked to him a little. When they got to the dance floor she should of refrain from doing her normal "drop- it -like-it's hot dance" and stuck to a basic two step. If you go onto the dance floor and dance extremely sexual and allow the guy to feel all over your goodies, he is going to have a hard time allowing the blood to rush back to his brain. His thoughts are going to be on getting you in the bed and not on getting to know you. As a couple, you want to know each other before getting sexually involved, not vice versa.

This next part is directed at the ladies who try way too hard at the beginning of a new relationship. You don't want to come across over eager or desperate for a man when starting a new relationship. Women often meet a new man and they are already hoping that he is the one. Because you are hoping that he is the one you try extra hard to try and impress him. You throw caution to the wind and start trying to speed the relationship up. You may even start bringing him gifts, calling him nonstop and chasing after him. Listen up, you are going about winning his heart in the wrong way. You need to breathe take a step back and allow him to pursue you. I know that feeling of wanting to impress someone and gain their approval. That feeling is natural. Most of us don't want a long string of bad relationships before we find the right person. The problem is if you are too overeager and chase him, he will run. Somewhere in his psyche he will believe if it's too easy to "catch you," something must be wrong. He may focus his attention on another woman who's harder to catch. The women who are harder to catch, will seem like the better catch.

A good example of this can be seen in the movie "He's Just Not That Into You". Jennifer Goodwin's character Gigi is overeager when it comes to men. She often throws herself at the men she likes. Gigi was so eager to have someone special she went to the bar hoping to run into Connor Barry (Kevin Connelly) a man who wouldn't return her phone calls after their first date. If someone doesn't return your calls, you should realize that he isn't interested in starting a relationship. You should then move on to someone who is interested. While Gigi was busy chasing Connor, Connor was busy chasing Scarlett Johansson's character, Anna. Of course Anna wasn't interested in him. My guess is Anna wasn't interested in Connor because he was too easy, eager and available. Anna instead chose to pursue a man who was married and more challenging to catch.

The bottom line is if you chase a man, he will probably run from you. Take your time and take things slowly when starting a new relationship. Don't tell yourself things like: I am almost thirty, I need to find a man today and I will do whatever it takes to get one. This is the wrong way to think, this thinking will cause you to pursue your guys too ferociously. Instead say something like this: I know I am looking for someone special, but I am going to take things slow and really get to know the next person I date. I don't want him to run away and I don't want to settle for just anybody or appear desperate. Take your time, be patient and let him chase you.

How To Say Sorry To A Woman

“How To Say ‘Sorry’ To A Woman”

Here is a very important rule when
you’re saying “sorry” to a woman:

Do apologize and admit that you have
done wrong, but do not try to beg for her
forgiveness.

Why not? Because most of the time,
begging for forgiveness will only make things
worse.

Initially, there will be a natural
human response from the woman to go on a small
power trip and see how much you will beg – even
if it’s to “teach you a small lesson.” But as
your keep on begging, her romantic respect for
you will drop and she may start believing that
she “should” be “very” mad at you.

Furthermore, each time you beg, you’re
drawing attention to the fact that you have done
her wrong, and that’s not going to help you
either.

Lastly, begging can get annoying really
quick. And when a person is already mad at you,
the last thing you want to do is to annoy them
further.

So instead of begging for forgiveness,
just apologize once, admit you’re the one at
fault, and promise to never do it again. Then
back off and give the woman so time to cool off.
After she has cooled off a bit, use rapport
resumption to act like nothing ever went wrong.
This is to draw attention away from the incident!

Finally, take her out on a great date
and act extra romantic.

When you see her smile, it means you
have been forgiven!

How to Make a Guy Chase You - Put Your Running Shoes On

Are you ready to run - and make a guy chase you? Would you like to capture his attention and make him fall in love? If you are looking for romance and commitment and marriage, there is a way. You just need to apply a little male psychology. Let me show you how to make him chase you.

It will take a little work on your part. But that is ok. You will see that it will be worth it. If you can learn how to make a guy chase you, you can gain for yourself a boyfriend / husband / lover / soul mate.

If you want to make a guy fall in love with you, you need to let him know that you are interested. That will encourage him to start the race. But you do not want to seem needy or desperate. That will discourage him. Good dating advice says to find the balance between the 2.

When we want to attract men, we need to smile at them. This lets them know that we are interested. A smile is a huge attraction in the world of dating. But you do not want to seem needy, so you can not overdo the smile. Do not make it too big or too often. This gives them something to chase.

Do you want to make him chase you and make him commit to you? Then be the kind of person who would make his life better, happier. Be a happy, positive person. Have some positive energy. Be cheerful. Always treat him in a kind way. You are showing him that you will be a definite plus in his life and he needs to chase you if he wants a better life for himself.

Do make sure that you give him something nice to look at. Pay attention to your clothing and grooming. You do not have to be a beauty queen, but you do need to make the most of what you have. If you can not think of how to improve in your looks, ask a friend for her advice.

You are ready. Put your running shoes on. Smile at him. Be a happy, positive person. Watch your appearance. You now know how to make him chase you.
Want to learn more? Go to: 77 Secrets of Love and learn how to make him fall in love with you hopelessly.

Be A Romantic Man - It's Easy!

Romance reminds a woman of what she really wants to know: that her man has been thinking about her and doesn’t take her for granted. A sweet gesture sends a message that says you care.

Romance can be big and bold, like the man who sky-writes a marriage proposal, but really it’s mostly about the small stuff. Small things go a long way with us like dancing in the kitchen when a great slow song comes on, or touching us frequently throughout the day. When you do small thoughtful things you are saying, “You’re special to me. I care about how you feel and I want you to be happy.”

You don’t have to spend lots of money to be a romantic man. Never underestimate the power of a foot rub or a mushy email. Which isn’t to say a surprise getaway to a bed and breakfast wouldn’t be fabulous. That would be great too! But it’s the regular, small acts of kindness that will help keep the juices flowing and fires burning. Ideally those acts of kindness should be a regular part of our lives as couples, and not just for special occasions like birthdays or Valentine’s Day.