Wednesday, August 4, 2010

Dating Tips for Men - How to Attract, Approach, And Get The Girl

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Have you ever had the experience where you were in a club, a bar, or any other spot where there were beautiful women and you found that you just could NOT make the move? We have all been there and it's not a fun or an enjoyable experience.

If you want to be able to change things, if you want to be able to make her want you and walk away with more than just a smile on your face, then you need to be able to make the approach and create attraction with her RIGHT AWAY.

Most men will admit that they are not really all that comfortable making the approach on a woman. They will sit there and kind of wait and wait, and then either talk themselves out of doing ANYTHING at all, or they will end up just making a complete fool of themselves.

If you want to attract, approach, and GET the girl, then you have to become the kind of "alpha male" that doesn't think twice.

Here's some dating tips for men on how to attract and approach women:

1. You need to be able to get past the mind games that you play on yourself.

Before you even walk on over to a woman, you have to be able to clear out the negative thoughts, the little voice that says that she will reject you so why even bother? Otherwise, you are going to come off like a guy that just is not comfortable around women and guess how that will make her feel? A little uncomfortable.

2. You need to use eye contact on the way over.

However, you do have to do this the right way, or else I guarantee that you will end up creeping her out. Women get creeped out all of the time by guys, and the guy usually never even realizes it is happening. Don't stare or give her an icy look, it needs to be warm and natural and inviting. You want to see her crack a smile before you get over to her.

3. You need to OPEN the conversation without coming off like a JERK.

What do I mean by this really? Well, you always should be the one that opens the conversation if you are the one that walks over to her. That is of course, unless she beats you to it, which can be a good thing. But, you don't want to open with something that makes you sound like a complete jerk. And you also don't want to open with something that will only lead to a BORING conversation, either.

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