Thursday, August 5, 2010

Don't Turn Him Off! - Avoid These Three Things No Matter What!

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Have you ever had a date only for the guy to never call you back? Did you find yourself wondering what you said or did to turn him off? Do you know how to avoid turning a man off? There are three things that turn men off instantly! Read on to find out how to avoid them.

Men don't like drama. In fact, they do everything in their power to avoid. For this reason, he probably won't tell you if something you did turned him off. Instead, he will just stop calling. This is why it is so important to know how to avoid turning him off.

Leave your ex alone

Talking about any guy excessively is enough to turn a guy off. However, your ex is a really, really big turn off. Sure, we have all had our share of heartbreaks, but this is something you discuss with your girlfriends, not your date. Talking about your ex will lead the guy you're dating to think you're still hooked on your ex. Every guy wants to be number one in his lady's life. So push your ex out of the driver seat and make room for the new guy. Also, avoid talking badly about men. Why would a guy want to date a girl that thinks men are pigs? Talking bad about men in general will get a guy turned off, and fast!

It's Time

Using the line "It's time for me to settle down" makes a man think it's all about your biological clock. He figures you don't care what guy it is, you're just ready for a ring and kids and a minivan. He needs to know that you're interested in settling down with him. However, this is still not a topic of discussion for a first or even tenth date. Men need time before they are ready to talk about a life-long commitment. Talk about settling down when things are more involved in your relationship. Breaking this rule is definitely going to turn a guy off.

Money honey

Men, particularly ones that are financially well off are always on guard against "gold diggers". No guy wants to be wanted for his money. Sure, every woman wants a man that can financially take care of her, but talking about it is likely to give him insecurities. If he suspects that you are after his money instead of his heart, you will turn him off. He's a great guy, talk about things that interest him instead.

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