How to Get a Boyfriend

You'll end up single and lonely for the rest of your life? Of course not! I know you don't really believe you'll end up like this, but I know the feeling. That feeling however, is probably part of the reason a boyfriend isn't coming. When you get anxious or nervous about these sort of things, it sometimes comes out and makes you do silly things. While normally you'd be ultra cool with a potential boyfriend and take your time, when you're looking for someone and have "I've been single for so long, I must try and get this guy asap" on your mind, you may come across overly desperate. This isn't usually intentional, it just happens. Worse still, some girls are willing to let themselves come across as more easy in order to get a guy. This is a big mistake, as although you'll probably have more success in the bedroom, you're much less likely to find a boyfriend or even a man that wants you as more then a sex buddy.

If you want to be successful in getting a boyfriend, you need to come across as your usual self that all your friends like. Remember, the opposite sex should just be treated like any other friends when getting to know them, even if they are mighty dashing. If you get to know any potential boyfriend on a friend level first, you're much more likely to see the real them and them see the real you. Why is this important? Because if they see the real you they've a chance to see if they're honestly attracted to you or not. When you've admitted defeat even before you talk to a guy, you're not going to put your heart into it and they won't get to see the real you! Now I'm not saying you need to put huge amount of effort in, quite the opposite actually. If you're being you it should come naturally, so the only effort you'll have to make is approaching a nice guy. Easy right? OK OK, I know it's easier said then done. But don't approach guys and you greatly cut down the amount of potential boyfriends you meet. That however is a subject for another time.