If you have been seeing a new guy, is he serious about you or is it just a fling? Can you tell how he really feels, or does he leave you confused? Will he want to keep you in his life, or is this just a temporary thing? If you keep wondering: is he serious about you-here are a few signs to look for.
Does he pursue you?
Guys who really mean business will go after what they want in one way or another. This can be a tricky one, because players will pursue women too-at least at first. But a guy who means it will keep it up. He will continue to make sure to stay in close touch beyond the first few weeks.
Does he tell you?
If a man means business, he will find a way to tell you so. Don't miss this one. Men won't usually make a point of having a big talk, but he will find a way to work his feelings into conversation. If he drops comments or hints, then he is trying to tell you something.
Does he talk about a future that includes you?
Is he serious about you if he doesn't think about having you in his life? When he talks about plans or goals, a man who is interested in building a future with you will mention you in the context of future plans. If he asks you where you want to life someday, or makes other remarks of that kind, then he is considering staying with you.
Does he show you off?
If a guy is just using you, he won't work you into his life. A guy who really wants to be with you will want to show you off to his friends. He will be interested in being seen with you, and will want people to know that you are together. Even if he is reluctant to use the word "girlfriend", he will let people know that he is with you.
It is never easy to tell just what another person is thinking. This can be especially true when it comes to dating and to new relationships. Having an open talk about feelings is sometimes sensitive and difficult. However, if you look for some signs, you can begin to answer the question; is he serious about you?
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