Saturday, October 16, 2010

What to Expect in a Relationship With Thai Girls

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Thai women for the most part are extremely different than Western girls because they are taught from early on that it is their job to take care of their husbands. For this reason they find it normal and even joyous to cook and take care of almost all of the household chores. Due to this fact, Thai girls leave no question in your mind that they sincerely care and make a point in showing it every day by all of the small tasks that they take care of in the home.

On the flip side, one thing you will notice that is different and perhaps not always acceptable depending on how you feel about in-laws, is that families are very close-knit in Thailand, so it is expected that you will be around the Thai girl's family on a very regular basis.

In particular her parents are extremely important and you will be expected to help her care for them as they grow old since Thai Buddhism teaches children since birth that they need to honour their parents by taking care of them in old age. This means that you will be expected to either invite them to move into your home or pay for their needs if they do not have a great deal of money.

Thai women also are in love with the idea of romance and "true love", and will expect to find romantic surprises woven into their time with you. For those that are not very romantic or have no idea of what your girlfriend or wife may want, there are plenty of websites that offer some insight into how to meet Thai girls' expectations of romance and some great gift ideas.

Saturday, October 9, 2010

How to Solve Conflicts in Relationship

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Conflict is not in and of itself a bad thing. In fact, conflicts in relationships can be constructive when used as a vehicle for improving communication. The following four steps can help you use conflict as a tool for gaining clarity, creating deeper understanding and strengthening relationships.

When you are in the midst of conflict, take the LEAD to manage it respectfully and calmly.

Listen to what is being said. Many times, conflict arises from a simple lack of understanding or miscommunication. Avoid making assumptions about what you hear. Instead, ask for clarification. For example, “I heard you say X, is that what you meant?”

Explorethe feelings that come up – Sometimes conflict escalates because something about the situation is an emotional trigger for us. If you’re feeling upset by the conversation, try to determine where the feeling is coming from. Take several deep breaths and try to remember that what is happening now is completely separate from the past. You can manage conflict more effectively if you deal only with the matter at hand. When you start introducing memories and past sleights it will be tough to get past the history of bad feelings to work toward a positive outcome.

Affirm theother person’s point of view. You don’t have to agree to understand the other point of view. Simply acknowledging and validating someone’s feelings can be a powerful tool for resolving conflict positively. At the end of the day, most people just want to be heard.

Decide on a fair course of action. Now that you have a clear idea of what the problem is and where the person is coming from, it is time to explore some solutions. Throw out some ideas that you can vet together. Choose the soundest option that you can agree on. Plan to revisit your decision within a specified period of time to see how you are doing and what changes, if any, need to be made.

Friday, October 8, 2010

Total Honesty in Relationships

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Total honesty with self

Are you honest with your needs and wants? Are you aware of what you truly want or need in this moment?

Is this what you want or is it based on the notion of not wanting to upset others through stating your real preference? Often we change our needs to fit in with others for fear of difficulties or non-acceptance.

Total honesty with self is first of all learning to listen to your own truth, your needs and wants, your likes and dislikes. With that comes the differentiation of what is truly yours and that which is based on the assessment of what others might need you to say or do, based on your perception on interpretation.

Total honesty with self includes self-acceptance. Acceptance of fears, anxieties, desires, avoidances, unresolved issues, past hurt and disappointments. This results from self-awareness and ruthless self-inquiry.

Total honesty with your partner

Once you are aware of yourself, as described above, in being totally honest with your partner you need to share those feelings, emotions, needs, wants, likes and dislikes, unresolved issues, past hurt and disappointments with your partner. The reason why we are not always totally honest with our selves and with our partner is because we fear the consequences: emotional pain, disapproval, disagreement, conflict or abandonment. Even though these fear are valid and significant, the journey to processing and releasing any unpleasant emotions or situation starts by acknowledging them first.

Friday, September 3, 2010

What Do Flowers Mean?

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Take carnations, for instance. They come in a wide range of colours - red, purple, pink, etc etc - and they each convey different messages, while carnations also have more than one meaning in general. Those meanings include 'bonds of affection'; 'health and energy'; 'fascination'; and 'woman love'.

Meanwhile, the meaning of pink carnations is said to be 'I'll never forget you'; red equals 'my heart aches for you' and purple is said to mean 'capriciousness' or 'whimsy'. Solid coloured carnations mean 'yes', while striped ones say 'no', and white and yellow carnations signify 'sweet and lovely' and 'rejection', respectively.

Another popular flower to give to someone are roses, which again come in many different colours. Red means 'I love you'; white means 'eternal love'; pink says 'perfect happiness'; and yellow is said to reflect 'friendship' or, conversely, 'jealousy'.

More specifically, thornless roses are said to mean 'love at first sight', a red rose bud means 'pure and lovely' and a bouquet of full bloom roses expresses gratitude.

In Victorian times, people frequently used these meanings to give flowers when they wished to express themselves. Take tulips, for example, which generally mean one of three things - 'fame', 'charity' and 'perfect lover'. Red tulips, on the other hand, are said to say 'believe me' or be a declaration of love. Variegated tulips send the message 'beautiful eyes', while yellow tulips are ones of hopeless love.

There are many more, of course, which I'll aim to bring you in other articles. For now, though, if you're looking to buy someone flowers, why not make sure they're expressing exactly how you feel?

Thursday, September 2, 2010

3 Positive Signs He Has Fallen In Love With You!

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Here are the few signs he has fallen in love with you:

1) Happiness- It is a natural feeling for an in love person, especially a man to be happy when he is with his special one. It gives them energetic feelings and excitement moments.

He tends to be positive in everything. It means that he has the sensation of having those butterflies in his stomach that tickles him every time he is with you.

2) Spending time with you - He wants to spend a lot of time with you. Love is expressed by giving you attention and sacrificing his own time just to be with you. He goes out of his own way just to be with you.

3) Thoughtfulness- Your man is no longer predictable. He starts to surprise you by giving you gifts that you never expected from him. He is trying to impress you.

Not only with material stuff but also being thoughtful. He cares about your well-being a great deal and puts in effort to help you with everything you need without you having to ask for it. It means that you are very important to him.

Tuesday, August 31, 2010

How to Get a Boyfriend

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You'll end up single and lonely for the rest of your life? Of course not! I know you don't really believe you'll end up like this, but I know the feeling. That feeling however, is probably part of the reason a boyfriend isn't coming. When you get anxious or nervous about these sort of things, it sometimes comes out and makes you do silly things. While normally you'd be ultra cool with a potential boyfriend and take your time, when you're looking for someone and have "I've been single for so long, I must try and get this guy asap" on your mind, you may come across overly desperate. This isn't usually intentional, it just happens. Worse still, some girls are willing to let themselves come across as more easy in order to get a guy. This is a big mistake, as although you'll probably have more success in the bedroom, you're much less likely to find a boyfriend or even a man that wants you as more then a sex buddy.

If you want to be successful in getting a boyfriend, you need to come across as your usual self that all your friends like. Remember, the opposite sex should just be treated like any other friends when getting to know them, even if they are mighty dashing. If you get to know any potential boyfriend on a friend level first, you're much more likely to see the real them and them see the real you. Why is this important? Because if they see the real you they've a chance to see if they're honestly attracted to you or not. When you've admitted defeat even before you talk to a guy, you're not going to put your heart into it and they won't get to see the real you! Now I'm not saying you need to put huge amount of effort in, quite the opposite actually. If you're being you it should come naturally, so the only effort you'll have to make is approaching a nice guy. Easy right? OK OK, I know it's easier said then done. But don't approach guys and you greatly cut down the amount of potential boyfriends you meet. That however is a subject for another time.

Thursday, August 26, 2010

Find Out Why Women Love Funny Guys

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We see it time after time, the ladies just go weak at the knees when a funny guy is in the room. A great way to win her heart is by entertaining her with some wit and a joke or two. The majority of us mere mortals have to practice this valuable social skill because the gift of the gab does not come naturally for most of us.

Perhaps you are quite shy and you need to sharpen your skills in the humor department, internet dating had better be the following course of action. Dating sites
allow you to sit, watch then participate at your own pace. You can learn a lot from the other members by checking out their form in the chat rooms or by simply browsing other profiles within the dating sites to pick up some handy tips.

Men are competitive beasts and they will often do strange even unpredictable things once the battle lines are drawn when competing to win the heart of a potential sweetheart. In the end, the girl will pick the guy who prevails in the battle of wit not macho behavior. Men who are not willing to adapt and learn how to charm a lady can expect a long wait on the side lines along side the other single men.

It doesn't take a genius to see why it is that self assured men get great results with women when it concerns dating. Women love to be mentally aroused, and amusing, charming men have the qualities required to be able to present women with this calibre. So guys listen up! now days, it's all about brains and not how large your biceps are.

Tuesday, August 24, 2010

Busy Single Women - Six Reasons to Make Time to Date

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1. They take the time to reflect on the kind of experience that they prefer to have in a relationship.
Perhaps, it's time for you to reflect on the experience you long to experience. Get really clear on it.
If it's about feeling cherished, what can a man do or say to show you that he cherishes you?

2. Take the time to describe for your self the kind of man who can help you have your preferred experience. Answer questions like: What interests will you share or what values will you share?

3. Determine the strategy that will take you from your current single state to one with a great partner.
Would changing your routine help? Perhaps, you can walk your dog on a different route.

4. Be careful to avoid the potholes of previous wrong choices. If you have fallen for alcoholics, abusers or cheaters, pay attention to the red light clues that let you side step these characters.

5. Use the law of attraction to your advantage. Focus on the kind of relationship that you prefer. When you concentrate on what you prefer to experience, the universe starts to arrange people and events to bring you the object of your desires.

6. Carve out at least 5 minutes per day to do your reflection process about the kind of man and relationship that you want. You will develop clarity and discernment that will help you become a better partner and therefore attract better partners.

Sunday, August 22, 2010

True Love, Path - The Long Road

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Men want to feel needed and if you want to make him fall in love, you have to be aware of how his mind works.

• Look and feel attractive, but make him feel in control to ask you out on a date. Put him at ease by letting him assume the role of the traditional man and let him pursue you.

• Keep the relationship easy and relaxed. If you come on too strong, he will feel pressured and shy away.

• Be on his watch; slow down your pace to match his. Men often take much longer to recognize their true feelings when in a relationship. Talk freely with him about emotions, but don't overwhelm him.

• Create an atmosphere of security and no pressure; this will make your man feel comfortable and ready to open up.

• Let him fall in love by having fun and not expecting too much from him too soon. When he's ready, you'll know.

Friday, August 20, 2010

Dark Marks Caused by Bra Straps

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If your breasts are bulging over the top or sides of your bra, or even from underneath, your bra is not the right size. These issues, along with strap marks, indicate that your cup size is too small. In addition, if the band of your bra is riding up above your shoulder blades, it is another indicator that your bra is too small.

According to Barenecessities.com, the support comes from the bra's band around your chest, not from the straps. If your straps are pulled too tightly, this is going to cause the dark marks in your skin. Furthermore, if the band on your bra is too big, the straps will end up carrying the load, which puts pressure on your shoulders and your back and will cause indentations.

How to Kiss the Neck

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keep your kisses really exciting by being spontaneous and by varying their intensity and duration. Also, be sure not to engage in a marathon kissing session. Initially, you want to pique her desire, not quench it altogether. This technique greatly sparks a woman’s desire and anticipation for you.

Now that you have the game plan down, try some of these techniques for passionately kissing a woman.

Monday, August 16, 2010

Have a Crush on a Friend? How to Move Out of the Friend Zone

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Have you realized that you have a crush on a friend of yours, and need to know what to do? Can you move out of the friend zone and become a couple? Are you anxious about trying to make a move from friendship to a romantic relationship? It can be very scary when you realize you have a crush on a friend, but here are a few tips to help you proceed.

Step 1 - Think it through.

If you want to move out of the friend zone with someone that you have been close to, you need to treat this as a very serious step. There is plenty of advice out there that will tell you that the best way to start a relationship is to become friends first. However, if you have found yourself in the position of wanting more from a friend, you know that there is plenty of difficulty in this area. You need to make sure that this is not just a passing infatuation before you risk your friendship.

Step 2 - Look for signs.

If you have been on a basis of strict friendship with someone for any decent length of time, then your love interest might not think of you in any other way. There is a real risk of rejection here. Try to determine whether there have been any signs of romantic interest, without just seeing what you want to see. Do your best to gauge your real chances of making a romance happen.

Step 3 - Come clean.

If a bit of flirting isn't enough to change the dynamic between you, you are going to have to gather your courage and tell your friend how you really feel. If you have a crush on a friend, you will probably simply confuse that person if you start behaving differently. You owe it to your friend to talk openly, so try to find a time and simply come clean about wanting more.

Step 4 - Give it some time.

Once you tell your friend how you feel, you might need to then stay away from that person for a while. Unless this person has felt the same way, they will need time to adjust to this new idea. So be willing to give your friend some space before giving you an answer. When you have a crush on a friend, you should take things slowly and hope for the best.

Is He Serious About You? Look For These Signs

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If you have been seeing a new guy, is he serious about you or is it just a fling? Can you tell how he really feels, or does he leave you confused? Will he want to keep you in his life, or is this just a temporary thing? If you keep wondering: is he serious about you-here are a few signs to look for.

Does he pursue you?

Guys who really mean business will go after what they want in one way or another. This can be a tricky one, because players will pursue women too-at least at first. But a guy who means it will keep it up. He will continue to make sure to stay in close touch beyond the first few weeks.

Does he tell you?

If a man means business, he will find a way to tell you so. Don't miss this one. Men won't usually make a point of having a big talk, but he will find a way to work his feelings into conversation. If he drops comments or hints, then he is trying to tell you something.

Does he talk about a future that includes you?

Is he serious about you if he doesn't think about having you in his life? When he talks about plans or goals, a man who is interested in building a future with you will mention you in the context of future plans. If he asks you where you want to life someday, or makes other remarks of that kind, then he is considering staying with you.

Does he show you off?

If a guy is just using you, he won't work you into his life. A guy who really wants to be with you will want to show you off to his friends. He will be interested in being seen with you, and will want people to know that you are together. Even if he is reluctant to use the word "girlfriend", he will let people know that he is with you.

It is never easy to tell just what another person is thinking. This can be especially true when it comes to dating and to new relationships. Having an open talk about feelings is sometimes sensitive and difficult. However, if you look for some signs, you can begin to answer the question; is he serious about you?

A Lasting Relationship - How to Build One For Yourself

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Are you ready to build a lasting relationship with a new guy that you have been seeing? Do you want to know how to do things right this time? What is the best way to make sure that things are solid before you jump in? Here are a few surprising keys to the beginning of a lasting relationship.

--Don't throw yourself into it too quickly.

One way to make sure a relationship is going to work for the long term is to take your time getting into it in the first place. You might be ready, willing, and even anxious to put the seal on your commitment and start your life as a couple. This is not always the best idea, however. You should keep the pressure off if you want to build trust.

--Think long and hard about things first.

While you are taking your time, put in a lot of thought as well. No matter how enthusiastic and infatuated you feel now, things will eventually cool off. You should try to understand what you have between you that will really contribute to a lasting relationship once the first rush is gone. This might seem like a mood-killer, but you will know what you really want and why it is right.

--Want it, don't need it.

This is another aspect to getting into a relationship for the right reasons. You should commit to a man who is really right for you, instead of settling in order to be with someone. Even if you are lonely being single, don't just jump into something in order not to be alone.

It might seem hard to wait, but it will be worth it if you hold out for something fulfilling. If you really want a lasting relationship, it needs to be with the right guy and for the best possible reasons.

Thursday, August 12, 2010

Friends Dating

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Some people don't always agree with friends dating because they believe that crossing borders spoils or ends friendships. There are those that support friends dating because they realise how important it is to be with someone that you really know. This increases the chances of a long lasting and happy relationship. There can be awkwardness if only one person is attracted to the other, but if both parties recognise the attraction, then being awkward around each other is not something to worry about. In fact since Friends are already comfortable being together, they can enjoy being intimate with each other much sooner, that's why friends dating works.

How do you get past the fact that you are Friends? - You don't have to because the beauty of friends dating is that you already know each other because you are friends. This means you know what will make each other happy. If you are still concerned about the fact that you are Friends, then it's obvious you are clearly not ready to go beyond friendship. Nobody can really plan who they end up with but a simple way of avoiding or lessening the stress of this dilemma in the future is by not putting someone you are attracted to in the friends only category. Also when there is attraction and yet no intention of getting involved in a romantic relationship but yet you pursue the Friendship, the advice is just don't close your doors. It's great to have a hot friend because you can do loads of things together and even better you can do things to each other, but still until the time is right make sure you understand your boundaries. If you are Friends, you are Friends. There is nothing quite like taking the opportunity of that closeness to increase your chances of actually getting a real chance at being romantically involved to the person you like.

It's quite common for Friends Dating to occur and then turn into love dating. After all you are with someone with whom you share a clear a connection with and there is no harm in trying to determine the degree of this connection. However, it's not always that easy to find someone that you can go out with and date.

A lot of people prefer the Friends first approach because this takes away a lot of the effort that goes into the "getting to know each other" part of a relationship. If you don't have any Friends right now that give you that kind of desire?

Monday, August 9, 2010

Special Prescription for a Broken Heart

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You think your relationship might be over. Your pain is unbearable. You feel so lost, alone and confused that sometimes you feel like crawling in a hole and dying. You just want somebody or something to stop the pain so you can feel normal again.

Because of all that's happened, you probably have a million thoughts going through your head right now.

You might be...

~ Wondering when the pain is ever going to stop

~ Trying to figure out what in the world just happened

~ Having trouble sleeping at night because of your "what ifs"

~ Finding it hard to drag yourself out of bed in the morning

~ Trying to let go of your love but you still can't think of anything else

~ Trying to stop crying but the tears just keep coming--and at the worst possible times

~ Feeling "numb" as you go through your day and try to appear "normal"

~ Finding it hard to focus on anything, especially work

~ Wondering if your time with your partner was a total waste of time

~ Just trying to make it through the day without bursting into tears and breaking down--but you do it anyway

~ Thinking you're a total failure at love and you'll never have the kind of relationship you want

~ Not wanting to go home knowing that your partner won't be there and you'll be alone

And what you're really thinking is that this is all some sort of bad dream that you're going to wake up from any moment now and everything will be back to normal.

If ANY of those thoughts and feelings are familiar to you, you're not alone.

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How to Break the with Bad-Boy - A tip for women

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Have you gone out with more than one bad boy in the last year? Are you in an on-again off-again relationship with a bad boy? If so, you may have a bad-boy habit that needs to be broken. Set yourself free from that bad boy with these five steps:

1. Write a list of all the bad things he has done to you. Women tend to get short memories when it comes to all the terrible ways bad boys treat them. They don't want to think about it. But if you decide to break the bad-boy habit, you need to force yourself to think about it! Write down a list of all the downright mean things he has done to you.

If he cheated on you and lied about it, write it down.
If he stayed out until 3 a.m. without calling you, write it down. Anytime he made you cry, write it down. Here is the best part -- put the list up on the wall next to a picture of him, so you associate his face with all the awful things he has done to you. He doesn't seem so attractive now, does he?

2. Stop having sex with him. A lot of times women will keep bad boys in their life way too long. This prevents you from meeting other people. And if you do meet someone else, you are not going to give him a fair shot. By continuing to have sex with the bad boy, you are prolonging the chemistry you feel for him. And then you wonder why you don't feel attracted to the nice guy who just asked you out. It's because you've got all your hormones wrapped up in Mr. Bad.

3. Realize that nice isn't boring. Nice guys often get the label of being boring, and the problem is it's not true!
The truth is that the bad boys are the boring ones because they are so predictably bad.
The truth is that the bad boys are the boring ones because they are so predictably bad. It's easy to predict that if you get back together with him for the third time, he is going to flirt with other women right in front of you. It's easy to predict that he is going to make you feel unattractive and miserable in a day or two.

There are no surprises in this type of relationship. Yet, the nice guy is liable to surprise you with a DVD of your favorite movie when you are sick or a fabulous compliment when you are feeling down. Now, that's exciting!

4. Ask yourself why you keep going for the bad-boy type. If you keep allowing yourself to get involved with bad boys, there is a reason and you need to start to dig deep for it. Maybe you have become addicted to drama.

Maybe there is abuse in your background so you keep going toward what is familiar to you. Maybe you are not sure what the qualities are that you should be looking for in a man. Take time to self-reflect about it, educate yourself about it, and think about seeing a therapist to help you along the way.

5. Remember bad boys really are bad! For some women, the idea of the bad-boy type has an allure. For a split second it may seem sexy and fun. What they don't realize is that bad boys are going to treat you bad and it's not sexy or fun! There is a big difference between the bad-boy fantasy and the reality of having a relationship with one. The actual relationships are harsh and mean and they don't change. Stop falling for the fantasy. Instead, fall for a real, good guy!

Saturday, August 7, 2010

ladies who are waiting for the right man and not just any man

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This article is dedicated to the ladies who are waiting for the right man and not just any man.

"Women are like apples on trees. The best ones are at the top of the tree. The men don't want to reach for the good ones because they are afraid of falling and getting hurt. Instead, they just get the rotten apples from the ground that aren't as good, but easy. So the apples at the top think something is wrong with them, when in reality, THEY'RE amazing. They just have to wait for the right man to come along. The one who's brave enough to climb all the way to the top of the tree" - Author unknown.

I received this short poem in an email and I absolutely love this poem. It really helped me through a period of time when I was single for what seemed like an eternity. I know how it feels to go through a long period of singleness sometimes with no end in sight. It seems even worse when others are constantly reminding you of your singleness, as if you didn't remember. Don't you hate it when you catch up with an old friend and the first thing they ask is if you are married or found someone special yet? I have met women who seem to only judge your success on the basis of your marital /relationship status. You could have graduated magna cum laude from Harvard, opened a Fortune 500 company and that wouldn't even interest them. They're not interested because they only want to hear about your romantic life. Maybe it's not your friends pressuring you. It might be a nagging mother or other family members. Their behavior and attitude may begin to affect you to the point where you are ready to end your singleness at all cost. You are so desperate that you are ready to lower your standards and date the first person that comes along just so that you can have the title "In a Relationship". You are ready to put your morals and requirements away and "fall to the ground" so that you can have someone. If you have decided to date a man that is already in a relationship, engaged or married, then you have fallen. If you have decided to date a man that has no job, no car and no money on the horizon. If you have decided to date a man that doesn't meet your "must have" standards then you have fallen.

You should have standards and values. A man should know that you expect certain things from him and vice versa. It's like the old saying "if you stand for nothing you will fall for anything." If you are valuable that means that you will have values because you value yourself. Don't start lowering your standards or crossing your important qualifications off the list just for the sake of having a man. When I speak about important qualifications I am not talking about things like a man's age, height or the car he drives. You shouldn't exclude a man just because he is not 6 foot tall or because he isn't an Ivy League graduate, you should be flexible on things like that. Important qualifications are his ethics, core values and intellect. For example if you are strongly opposed to drug use you shouldn't start a relationship with a pot- head.

If you really want kids, you probably shouldn't start a relationship with a man who admittedly does not want children. Don't believe the lie that you can change him. So many women are unhappy because they are trying to change someone else. It's hard enough for me to change myself. Most people have a hard time with change. Think about this: how many times have you tried to change your spending habits, diet, etc. Just think of the many New Year's resolutions that you haven't been able to keep. Let's face it; change can be hard; the bottom line is, don't expect him to change for you. I am not saying it is impossible for him to change. I am saying that change is highly unlikely, especially when it comes to the big things. If he doesn't work, has never worked and hates to work, don't expect that he is going to get up and suddenly become gainfully employed just because you are now in his life.

You may be tired of seeing all the fallen apples getting picked before you. I can understand, I have been there where you see friends compromise what they believe in just so they won't have to spend Valentine's or a Saturday night without a date. Women who compromise themselves are probably going to be left disappointed in the end. They probably won't share their disappointment with you. They want it to appear that they are happy. But the reality is they are probably not. You are going to be better off in the long run if you take your time in selecting a partner. It is okay to embrace being alone it allows you clarity that you won't get from being in a relationship. If you hop from relationship to relationship you won't be able to learn what you really need to be happy. It takes time and reflection to seriously learn what you need in a relationship. Commit to staying on the tree and only allowing the right man to pick you.

What Women Want

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Two nights ago in a snooker club, while on a blackball-chase with Jumoke, my snooker-freak friend, she told me she is a tripper for pointed-nosed and bright-eyes guys and wouldn't mind if they haven't got any other thing to flaunt. "Larry, you see, I don't mind if they are physically built or not, especially if he is free-minded", she said taking a cushion shot. It was all about the guy that played before we did; he was her perfect man. As we drove back home that night, after she whopped me on 4-balls, I wondered what women really wanted. Especially when I had met women who are ready to go to the ends of the world with you even if you as broke as the proverbial church rat. Then it is quite common to find others who wouldn't return a smile if it is not coming from your jaw-dropping-cost blings or if your car wouldn't stir a "look at that!" Then you have my fiance who would go crazy if I don't get her a stalk of rose on my way home any day, even if I tried to bribe her with a bottle of her best Champagne; and my Sister-in-law has an obsession for a listening ear. It all makes me wonder what women really wanted. Is there a single-all-inclusive want for every woman? You would ask, if you were me. Yes? No? Well not now, just read on. Let me first say that the heart of a woman is deep, unstable, hence, very unpredictable; however, every woman you see around can't deny she needs certain things.

Attention
The foremost need of most women is "attention" and if you meet this need, she will be spell-bound to you. A natural woman could do anything to get the attention of her man, when she really needs it. It is an important need because, to her, it is a measure of her worth in his eyes; she wants his world to revolve around her. It is one need she can never get satisfied of; in fact, the urge increases with time- so long as she is in love with you. This doesn't really means she would want you around her all the time, but when you are not there, she needs to be assured she is hung around your neck where ever you go. She wants to know you are always there; and that you can expend your time on her.

Jealous-devotion
Most women need their man to treat them like his a goddess; they want him to revere them and show them top-notch devotion and they will mind for anything less. I am not saying that women have domineering tendencies; but in as much as they can't have you to themselves, they want you to show them you understand that they own you. You must have observed that a woman might condone it when you cheat on her but will find it difficult to stay with you if you make her feel you have the right to have any other woman beside her. This is because such position hurts their pride but they can live with your unfaithfulness if they know you still recognise the superiority of ownership they have over you.

Respect
I have hardly met any woman who don't crave for her man's respect; especially African and Asian ones. To most women, respect seats at the top of their 'what women wants' list. There is always that recognition of self-worth in every woman; except off course, she had traded hers to satisfy other 'pressing' needs. When a man respects his woman, he gives her a second thought each time his bubbles burst. For most women, respect is an important word in the language of love; so if you don't respect them they, probably, aren't flowing with whatever you are saying.

S.E.X
Then you have the controversial SEX. Yes! S.E.X; most women will give anything to get satisfactory sex from their lover. Though some are shy to accept this, they know it is the truth. Good sex creates a strong sense of fulfilment and self-discovery when it is shared with a special person. When she says 'he makes me feel like a woman'; watch out, she might just be passing a message. I have seen so many marriages crash because somebody was ignorant of this simple truth about his woman; or probably was aware but decided to ignore it. In fact, researches have shown that why most women trip for the machos is because of the unspoken promise of good sex; for such women the bigger the better. Anyway I must say that this particular need is strictly 'bi-sexual'.

Comfort
Another quite insatiable need of a woman is comfort. Every woman will go for a man who could make her comfortable all things being equal. This would mean that a woman will love it if her man can make her physically relaxed by providing her basic needs without having to put her through avoidable stress or pain. In Igbo land a woman will submit to you as a wife if she notices that you can provide for her; give her a roof over her head, feed her and her children, cloth her and meet most of her numerous (in fact countless) needs.

Protection
This brings me to another need that is infused into that of comfort; women wants protection and security. No woman wants to be stranded in life; theirs' is an obsession. A woman likes to be sure of whatever she is going into. She also needs a man that can convince her that he knows where he is taking them to and even if things go wrong he will always be in charge. Besides, she wants to be sure that someone has got her back and that her man can protect her from anything; even those things she is sure is naturally above her.

And...
The list continues; you can't have all of them now. But with the above listed needs you are good to go. However, watch out for others on my lovebirdsguide blogger site. But let mention that the basic needs of a woman isn't the only thing to bother about; you also need to find out when they need them. It is important you know these because a great percentage of what determines your success in this phase of life could be tied around your success with the female folks. You can do some researches to verify this. Good luck and fly high always!

Run and He Will Chase You

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I have noticed one thing about dogs; when you play with a dog, if you turn the other way and run, the dog will turn and chase you. If you turn around and decided to chase your dog, then he will run from you. The funny thing is that the same behaviors that dogs exhibit I have noticed in human relationships. Do you know any normal people who become border line stalkers in relationships? You may have a friend that calls her significant other between 20 and 30 times a day and the calls are unwanted and unrequited. She shows up at his job just to surprise him with lunch. She buys greetings cards for Ground Hog's Day, Flag's Day and she wants to spend every other minor holiday just so that she can spill all her mushy guts to him. She's wants to spend every waking moment with her guy and she is attached to him closer than a one year old to his/her mom. The poor guy has no breathing space and all of sudden gets the urge to move and leave no forwarding address. The poor girl can't figure out why he isn't answering his phone and why he is never home when she stops by. That poor girl needs to find a computer and log on to New Love because we would be glad to explain to her why he isn't responding to her. The fact is, if you chase a man, he will run away from you.

It is in a man's basic make up to chase you. They are the hunter; they chase the prey. We are the prey and we are to put up a little resistance. If a big lion was chasing you, you wouldn't just let him pounce on you. You would run and that is what I suggest you keep in mind when it comes to the opposite sex. Let me explain what I am talking about by giving you a few examples...... Rhonda is at the club with the girls. She hasn't had a date in a while and beginning to really feel the need for some time with the opposite sex. She is looking good in her mini skirt and is showing some major cleavage. She bounces her leg to the beat. Along walks a guy and asks to buy her a drink. The smile across her face is huge now and she is so excited. After he buys her the drink, they dance the "mating dance". What is the mating dance? The mating dance can be summed up as having sex with your clothes on. You know what I am talking about it. The dance consists of grinding and "dropping it like it is hot". The next thing she knows it is morning, her head hurts from all the drinking and she is in bed with him. They say their goodbyes and exchange a few text messages over the next couple of days, but their romance is short lived. Why didn't their romance last? There was no chase. The guy saw his prey; he moved in on her and she put up no resistance.

Let me tell you how Rhonda should have played it. When the man walked up to her she should of have smiled and been polite. While she was sipping her drink she should have talked to him a little. When they got to the dance floor she should of refrain from doing her normal "drop- it -like-it's hot dance" and stuck to a basic two step. If you go onto the dance floor and dance extremely sexual and allow the guy to feel all over your goodies, he is going to have a hard time allowing the blood to rush back to his brain. His thoughts are going to be on getting you in the bed and not on getting to know you. As a couple, you want to know each other before getting sexually involved, not vice versa.

This next part is directed at the ladies who try way too hard at the beginning of a new relationship. You don't want to come across over eager or desperate for a man when starting a new relationship. Women often meet a new man and they are already hoping that he is the one. Because you are hoping that he is the one you try extra hard to try and impress him. You throw caution to the wind and start trying to speed the relationship up. You may even start bringing him gifts, calling him nonstop and chasing after him. Listen up, you are going about winning his heart in the wrong way. You need to breathe take a step back and allow him to pursue you. I know that feeling of wanting to impress someone and gain their approval. That feeling is natural. Most of us don't want a long string of bad relationships before we find the right person. The problem is if you are too overeager and chase him, he will run. Somewhere in his psyche he will believe if it's too easy to "catch you," something must be wrong. He may focus his attention on another woman who's harder to catch. The women who are harder to catch, will seem like the better catch.

A good example of this can be seen in the movie "He's Just Not That Into You". Jennifer Goodwin's character Gigi is overeager when it comes to men. She often throws herself at the men she likes. Gigi was so eager to have someone special she went to the bar hoping to run into Connor Barry (Kevin Connelly) a man who wouldn't return her phone calls after their first date. If someone doesn't return your calls, you should realize that he isn't interested in starting a relationship. You should then move on to someone who is interested. While Gigi was busy chasing Connor, Connor was busy chasing Scarlett Johansson's character, Anna. Of course Anna wasn't interested in him. My guess is Anna wasn't interested in Connor because he was too easy, eager and available. Anna instead chose to pursue a man who was married and more challenging to catch.

The bottom line is if you chase a man, he will probably run from you. Take your time and take things slowly when starting a new relationship. Don't tell yourself things like: I am almost thirty, I need to find a man today and I will do whatever it takes to get one. This is the wrong way to think, this thinking will cause you to pursue your guys too ferociously. Instead say something like this: I know I am looking for someone special, but I am going to take things slow and really get to know the next person I date. I don't want him to run away and I don't want to settle for just anybody or appear desperate. Take your time, be patient and let him chase you.

Thursday, August 5, 2010

Don't Turn Him Off! - Avoid These Three Things No Matter What!

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Have you ever had a date only for the guy to never call you back? Did you find yourself wondering what you said or did to turn him off? Do you know how to avoid turning a man off? There are three things that turn men off instantly! Read on to find out how to avoid them.

Men don't like drama. In fact, they do everything in their power to avoid. For this reason, he probably won't tell you if something you did turned him off. Instead, he will just stop calling. This is why it is so important to know how to avoid turning him off.

Leave your ex alone

Talking about any guy excessively is enough to turn a guy off. However, your ex is a really, really big turn off. Sure, we have all had our share of heartbreaks, but this is something you discuss with your girlfriends, not your date. Talking about your ex will lead the guy you're dating to think you're still hooked on your ex. Every guy wants to be number one in his lady's life. So push your ex out of the driver seat and make room for the new guy. Also, avoid talking badly about men. Why would a guy want to date a girl that thinks men are pigs? Talking bad about men in general will get a guy turned off, and fast!

It's Time

Using the line "It's time for me to settle down" makes a man think it's all about your biological clock. He figures you don't care what guy it is, you're just ready for a ring and kids and a minivan. He needs to know that you're interested in settling down with him. However, this is still not a topic of discussion for a first or even tenth date. Men need time before they are ready to talk about a life-long commitment. Talk about settling down when things are more involved in your relationship. Breaking this rule is definitely going to turn a guy off.

Money honey

Men, particularly ones that are financially well off are always on guard against "gold diggers". No guy wants to be wanted for his money. Sure, every woman wants a man that can financially take care of her, but talking about it is likely to give him insecurities. If he suspects that you are after his money instead of his heart, you will turn him off. He's a great guy, talk about things that interest him instead.

How to Dress For the First Date - Make a Lasting Impression

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So you finally snagged that first date with the guy you've been crushing on. What do you wear? How do you make a lasting impression on your first date? What will turn him on and what is likely to turn him off? Dressing for a first date can be intimidating. You want what you wear to dazzle him and take his breath away. This article will tell you how to do just that!

Wear your confidence

The most important thing to remember is to bring your confidence. Your attitude about yourself will impress him more than anything you wear. It's important that, whatever you decide to wear, it makes you feel confident!

Find a balance

You don't want to dress like you're hanging out around the house, but you also don't want to overdress or dress too provocatively. What you're wearing should communicate that you put some thought and effort into impressing him. However, showing too much can give the message that you're either desperate or easy.

Dress for the occasion

If you're going to dinner, you don't want to wear jeans and a fitted tee. In contrast, if you are going sailing, you don't want to wear an evening dress. Be clear on your activities for the night and dress to fit the occasion.

Compliment your figure

When choosing your outfit, take your figure into consideration. Do you have long legs? Wear a skirt a knee length skirt if weather permits. What about your eyes? Wear something that compliments your eye color. Also, be sure to take the time to try on a few different colors and find the one that compliments your skin tone the best.

Think before you buy

Instead of buying something new, find something in your closet that you like. New outfits need test runs before going on a date. The last thing you need is to be out on your date only to find out that that new skirt keeps riding up showing more than your legs! Wear something from your closet that you know looks good on you. You can always add accessories to make it look a little dressier.

If the shoe fits

Don't wear something that doesn't fit right. You should be comfortable on your date. How can you have fun if you can't breathe or your feet hurt? You can look stunning without wearing something that cuts off your circulation!

As women, we really worry too much about what to wear on the first date. Your personality is what he's going to fall in love with. Just be sure to follow these simple rules and you should make a lasting impression long after the date is over.

Wednesday, August 4, 2010

For Guys Who Need the Best Dating Tips

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Dating tips for guys are available to whoever finds it hard to find a good date. These tips give you the information you need, information that may be new to you. Take tips you like, and let the rest go. Just remember that all the advice offered isn't really what you need. Just take what you think you need, and that should do it.

Have you ever known a woman who wasn't a mystery? That's why men find them difficult to see through. Have you ever just wanted to throw in the towel? Well, if you try different approaches, you might just crack the code. What makes things even more difficult is, of course, that all women are not the same. Reading each situation requires special skills.

There is no denying it that one of the best dating tips for guys is to really hear what the woman is saying, because that's where what she wants is buried. Listen and listen and listen, and get to know that woman. And do remember that romance is the best way to a woman's heart.

If you aren't rich, don't despair. It doesn't take millions to be romantic. A personal note can do the trick. Or a movie she might have said she wanted to see. Take her to see it. Surprise her, she will appreciate it.

Do not make a big issue of anything and all things will naturally fall into place. Be thoughtful. That's always a very good idea. Try to cultivate this if it's not already something that's natural to you.

Getting good dating tips for guys is not something difficult. If you need some good advice, it should be out there for you. Try out different approaches and try to find what is within your comfort zone. Don't overlook the fact that confidence is a good thing. Women really like a guy to be confident, so act like that.

How to Tell If a Guy Likes You - 100 Signs

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Here are 100 signs to tell if a guy really likes you....

01. He smiles at you a lot.

02. He likes talking to you.

03. He compliments you a lot.

04. He always agrees with you.

05. He asks if you are single.

06. He asks you out for lunch.

07. He asks you out on a date.

08. He knows your zodiac sign.

09. He never burps around you.

10. He really cares about you.

11. He treats you like a lady.

12. He walks you to your door.

13. He wants to see you often.

14. He always wants to hug you.

15. He tells you he likes you.

16. His friends know your name.

17. He introduces you to his mom.

18. He shows up on time on dates.

19. He wants to meet your family.

20. He's not afraid to touch you.

21. He buys you an expensive gift.

22. He does anything to touch you.

23. He hugs you when he meets you.

24. He worries about how you feel.

25. He acts like a baby around you.

26. He asks your friends about you.

27. He calls just to say goodnight.

28. He knows what perfume you wear.

29. He never takes you for granted.

30. He says "hi" to you constantly.

31. He talks to you about his past.

32. He adjusts his socks around you.

33. He asks you out on a date again.

34. He cannot take his eyes off you.

35. He does a lot of favors for you.

36. He introduces you to his family.

37. He is very protective about you.

38. He loves spending time with you.

39. He sends you secret love emails.

40. Your friends think he likes you.

41. He always looks happy to see you.

42. He calls you several times a day.

43. He can't stop thinking about you.

44. He introduces you to his friends.

45. He is super nice to your friends.

46. He listens to every word you say.

47. He tells you a lot about himself.

48. He tries to talk to your friends.

49. He asks you "So, are you single?".

50. He asks you a lot about your life.

51. He calls you when he says he will.

52. He detests any guy you talk about.

53. He has a special nickname for you.

54. He is always there to talk to you.

55. He is himself when you are around.

56. He shows you his childhood photos.

57. He stutters when he speaks to you.

58. He talks to his friends about you.

59. He tells you that you are special.

60. His friends are extra nice to you.

61. His friends talk to you about him.

62. He asks you about how your day was.

63. He becomes sad when you ignore him.

64. He cancels his other plans for you.

65. He does his best to make you laugh.

66. He gives you the news straight out.

67. He helps your Dad clean his garage.

68. He knows your dress and shoe sizes.

69. He stops flirting with other girls.

70. He takes you out on a Friday night.

71. He tolerates you being mean to him.

72. He wants to let you into his life.

73. You are the focus of his attention.

74. He asks you to a dance "as friends".

75. He finds your silly quirks charming.

76. He hits you in a gentle, flirty way.

77. He likes you better just as you are.

78. He talks about his family with you.

79. He tries to get to know your family.

80. His friends ask you if you like him.

81. He accompanies you when you're alone.

82. He believes in your goals and dreams.

83. He blinks a lot when he talks to you.

84. He kids and lightly makes fun of you.

85. He makes excuses just to be with you.

86. He plans future dates along with you.

87. He remembers all your friend's names.

88. He shares his darkest fears with you.

89. He smiles back when you smile at him.

90. He wants to talk to you all the time.

91. He's going out of his way to see you.

92. He blushes or smiles when he sees you.

93. He calls you just to say good morning.

94. He gives you a spare key to his place.

95. He goes out of his way to talk to you.

96. He knows your daily schedule by heart.

97. He makes fun of you in a friendly way.

98. He makes time for you, no matter what.

99. He names his new pet turtle after you.

100. He stands up for you whenever need be.

Dating Tips for Men - How to Attract, Approach, And Get The Girl

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Have you ever had the experience where you were in a club, a bar, or any other spot where there were beautiful women and you found that you just could NOT make the move? We have all been there and it's not a fun or an enjoyable experience.

If you want to be able to change things, if you want to be able to make her want you and walk away with more than just a smile on your face, then you need to be able to make the approach and create attraction with her RIGHT AWAY.

Most men will admit that they are not really all that comfortable making the approach on a woman. They will sit there and kind of wait and wait, and then either talk themselves out of doing ANYTHING at all, or they will end up just making a complete fool of themselves.

If you want to attract, approach, and GET the girl, then you have to become the kind of "alpha male" that doesn't think twice.

Here's some dating tips for men on how to attract and approach women:

1. You need to be able to get past the mind games that you play on yourself.

Before you even walk on over to a woman, you have to be able to clear out the negative thoughts, the little voice that says that she will reject you so why even bother? Otherwise, you are going to come off like a guy that just is not comfortable around women and guess how that will make her feel? A little uncomfortable.

2. You need to use eye contact on the way over.

However, you do have to do this the right way, or else I guarantee that you will end up creeping her out. Women get creeped out all of the time by guys, and the guy usually never even realizes it is happening. Don't stare or give her an icy look, it needs to be warm and natural and inviting. You want to see her crack a smile before you get over to her.

3. You need to OPEN the conversation without coming off like a JERK.

What do I mean by this really? Well, you always should be the one that opens the conversation if you are the one that walks over to her. That is of course, unless she beats you to it, which can be a good thing. But, you don't want to open with something that makes you sound like a complete jerk. And you also don't want to open with something that will only lead to a BORING conversation, either.

Tuesday, August 3, 2010

How To Say Sorry To A Woman

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“How To Say ‘Sorry’ To A Woman”

Here is a very important rule when
you’re saying “sorry” to a woman:

Do apologize and admit that you have
done wrong, but do not try to beg for her
forgiveness.

Why not? Because most of the time,
begging for forgiveness will only make things
worse.

Initially, there will be a natural
human response from the woman to go on a small
power trip and see how much you will beg – even
if it’s to “teach you a small lesson.” But as
your keep on begging, her romantic respect for
you will drop and she may start believing that
she “should” be “very” mad at you.

Furthermore, each time you beg, you’re
drawing attention to the fact that you have done
her wrong, and that’s not going to help you
either.

Lastly, begging can get annoying really
quick. And when a person is already mad at you,
the last thing you want to do is to annoy them
further.

So instead of begging for forgiveness,
just apologize once, admit you’re the one at
fault, and promise to never do it again. Then
back off and give the woman so time to cool off.
After she has cooled off a bit, use rapport
resumption to act like nothing ever went wrong.
This is to draw attention away from the incident!

Finally, take her out on a great date
and act extra romantic.

When you see her smile, it means you
have been forgiven!

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